Losing weight can make things awkward for you but leptoconnect is there to help you in that. People want to date you. They aren’t happy as just your friend. And it can be lonely when you were used to everyone just wanted to be your friend. But isn’t giving up some friendships worth your health and well being?
Being a good looking Christian isn’t easy. You have your faith, but people want more from you. And they have no right to it. You have to stand strong on your beliefs and pray to God for strength and wisdom. It takes maturity. And telling a lot of people no. And it can be nerve-wracking.
But no worse than being grabbed at in class and called a dog. Just remember people are sinners and you have to be more like Jesus in times like these and say “Forgive them, father. They know not what they do” Holding grudges only hurt yourself. If you can’t forgive, others won’t forgive you. Sometimes you have to make new friends. People who really give a fig about you.
Yes, you have to be careful sometimes, but I believe in people. That they want to be good. I think its also good to have mace. You have to tell a lot of people no. I have the unsavory experience of being grabbed at by coworkers. I now go by Jay at work.
Living in New Jersey is no cakewalk. Everything’s expensive. People can be cruel and there’s not a lot of difference. Just a lot of meanness. People are selfish and don’t care about you. Only about themselves. I get called J-lo so they think I’m cool.
I grew up in the ‘90s where Morris County had a big Heroin Epidemic. Kids were getting high, wasting their lives. I turned to Jesus because I couldn’t comprehend turning to drugs. But by that time, they already got me on medicine for emotional turmoil. I have since received a lot of counseling and I used to be an emotional wreck until I really started seeking peace through spirituality. Some people call it meditation. I call it “Be still and know that I am God” as the bible says it. It works for me. I pray for healing, for guidance. For faith and love. I am very sensitive and it hurts me when people yell at me.
I don’t like to see people suffering, and I can pray for them. But it seems like there is so much suffering in the world, that being beautiful and having a lot of guys want you to seem like no big issue. But it can be draining when you don’t know who they are and they grab at you and then make fun of you when you reject them. It’s not easy being beautiful. But it beats being fat.
